Oh Lordy. I am so thankful that a lot of times I have no clue what the heck is going on. Apparently, while I was working, a “tiff” ensued, and I completely missed it (Mind you I was physically sitting inbetween the tiff). So either I was in La la land or working really hard (let’s go with the latter).
I have a theory where ALL “tiffs” boil down to miscommunication, which as I found out later, was the issue. Secondarily, this miscommunication was actually over something(one) COMPLETELY DIFFERENT!!! Which got me thinking:
A) TYG (thank you God) I do not get sucked into drama anymore, or feel the need to fix the situation. There was no need for me to stir that shit pot any more.
B) TYG I just show up, do my job, and leave. There was a long time where I would get too emotionally attached, and have been told by my boss to care less. I am a sensitive person and can easily care too much and wreck my serenity.
C) As my sponsor always says, an exaggerated reaction to a normal event means the reaction is NEVER over what actually took place. Dig deeper.
D) TYG I hardly know what Drama is anymore. I shy away from drama filled people these days (yes, even my family), and usually only come in contact every now and again at work.
E) TYG I have a program that has taught me to check my feelings, keep my side of the street clean, and generally not let emotions come to a boiling point. Which is completely opposite of how I naturally operate. Crucial to avoiding drama in the first place.
F) Does this mean I pass the Al-Anon test? (I kid, I kid).
To a Drama-free day,